Measuring Success as a Writer
by krstaten
Or: The Importance of Writers and Artists Supporting Other Writers and Artists
This is not an especially popular blog.
I know because I have 98 followers and I’m fairly certain at least 80 of them are spam blogs. I also know this because at least 85% of my page views come from friends and family who follow my links on Facebook or other social networking sites, and views and comments from people who just happen upon my blog are still fairly rare.
And so it’s hard for me to measure my success as a writer.
Which is a strange thing to say, because of course it’s silly to think your success as a writer can be measured in page views. Because after all, there is some terrible writing out there that has become wildly popular, and there is some absolutely brilliant writing that manages to slip completely under the radar. My success as a writer has nothing to do with how many people read what I write and everything to do with the quality of the writing and how well-received it is by the people who do read it. I consider my writing successful if it means something and resonates with someone and says what I feel needs to be said.
The problem is, without page views and comments, I have no way of knowing whether I’m doing that effectively.
The problem with art is that an artist really can’t be objective about their own creations. For example, I hate everything I’ve ever written two weeks after I write it. I’m absolutely serious on this–anything I write that I’m proud of enough to put on this blog, within a week or two I wish I’d never let it see the light of day. When I was younger, I had the opposite problem: I was so absurdly proud of everything I wrote that I felt everyone needed to see it, even though it was objectively terrible.
It’s just hard to neutrally judge something you’ve created when you’ve already spent so much time with it that at this point it just feels stale. Metaphors I’ve written are not going to feel fresh and surprisingly apt like I want them to–not to me, because I’ve read them so many times during the writing process to try to perfect their delivery that they feel as familiar and overdone as any cliche.
This is going to sound like I’m begging for comments, and hell, maybe I am–after all, I really don’t feel I can grow without feedback. But it’s a reminder to myself, as well: I firmly believe artists need other artists to grow. We need the opportunity to surround ourselves with people who know what we’re doing better than we do, and we need feedback, or at the very least interaction, in order to really grow and meet our potential as writers and artists. And I’ll be the first to admit, I’m not great about responding to other peoples’ writing, even if I do have something to say, for fear of coming across as weird or creepy or just unwelcome.
I’m probably wrong about this, because I’m wrong about a lot of things, but right now I feel like the only way we can really measure our own success and growth is through networking and interacting with other people who are doing the same things and going through the same artistic evolution that we are. Just something for myself to keep in mind.
Hi Katie! I just stumbled upon your blog. I’ve enjoyed what I’ve read so far. ๐ Be encouraged that your writing is making a difference…so keep on blogging! Looking forward to reading more from you. ๐ Best, phoebe
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Well, thank you so much! One of my favorite things is when I see someone read a post, and then liked it enough to read a few more–even if they don’t comment it tells me someone is interested in what I’m doing, which is always encouraging.
Thanks for reading and commenting!
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i feel a little like this with my writing. you cannot gauge success by numbers of likes, page views and comments etc. BUT they are a fundamental part of learning more about our writing – its successes and how it moves someone.
i always try to comment when i read a person’s piece of writing – i am not one of those readers that hits the ‘like’ button and moves on… if a piece of writing has moved me, made me think or feel, i like to let the writer know WHY… it’s only fair, after all, they’ve exposed so much of their self in what they’ve shared. it’s only courteous. AND it gives the writer some feedback.
keep writing and don’t despair. write for yourself. i will be back to read more at some point. i enjoyed this, possibly because i could, truly, relate to it.
best wishes x
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See, and what I need to do is be more like you–actually leaving a comment rather than just pressing the “Like” button.
Thanks for the comment, I really appreciate it!
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i try, where possible, to always leave a comment on a piece i’ve read, and offer my thoughts, feelings etc – it’s just nice to be nice. it will come back to you – the more you interact with others x
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Don’t be so down on yourself. Write what you want to write and then love it. Once I create a post and put it out there for all to see, I don’t look back. A writer should be proud of their work. But I know what you mean about the importance of having other artists comment and encourage each other. That’s truly helpful. Keep up your writing ๐
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Thanks for the comment. =) I try not to hate everything I write, but I don’t want to blindly love it either. I want to be able to know where there’s room for improvement and learn to grow. I just happen to think the best way to do that is to learn from other writers.
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Very true.
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I don’t know if you can measure the quality of your writing by page likes and comments. I think those are more a measure of the popularity of your topic, or whether it struck a chord with the reader. I’ve “liked” and commented on lots of poorly-written stuff because I agreed with the topic or otherwise engaged with it.
For feedback on your writing, I agree that you need other artists. Have you tried a writers’ group, whether online or IRL? Good luck!
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That’s a fair point! I was thinking more along the lines of, you have no idea what your writing is doing for other people with zero interaction. But you’re right, sometimes people will like/comment on something they agree with even if that doesn’t reflect the quality of the writing itself, and that is something to keep in mind.
I have tried to get involved in IRL writing groups, but unfortunately scheduling conflicts make that next to impossible. Most of the online writing communities I’ve found have been ones that were either for very young/beginning writers, at which I feel kind of out of place now, or have been ones that focused on totally different kinds of writing than what I do. That’s part of why I joined WordPress–in hopes of finding more people who take poetry seriously. But I myself have done a poor job of networking, so this post was as much a reminder for myself as it was an attempt to reach out to others.
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I found that people started following and commenting way more on my blog when I spent the time to make considered comments on their posts. Just “liking” or saying “great post” wasn’t enough; that wasn’t starting any conversations. Not sure what your blog habits are like, but if this isn’t something you do regularly, it’s well worth investing the time to build community.
Have you checked out scribophile.com or critiquecircle.com? I haven’t yet, but keep meaning to. I think they both have poetry “divisions”…
Also, you could ask a question at the end of your posts if there’s a specific type of feedback you’d like to receive on that piece. People like to give their opinions, but sometimes they need to have it solicited!
Good luck!
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If you like. I will leave comment. Usual I leave comments for things when my opinion is worthwhile.
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I definitely don’t want to pressure anyone to leave feedback. This post is also a reminder to myself–I am terrible at leaving feedback. I should have been clearer in this post; this isn’t just about me wanting interaction from other writers, which I do feel would be helpful, but also me needing to learn to interact with other writers, because I think mutual interaction is a key part of that growth. Something I’m going to start working on.
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I agree. I use another site for edit. They tell me to fix things and the poem are lousy. I believe WordPress is more polite. I wish WordPress had a direct e-mail. Would make private help, one on one.
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Do you mind if I ask what web site you use for feedback/editing? I wouldn’t mind checking it out, even if it is a bit more abrasive.
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I use the Writers Cafe for honest reviews. I been on the W.C for 6 years.
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